“The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” classic 10 thoughts after reading

20-year-old lifestyle
20-year-old lifestyle

 “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” classic 10 thoughts after reading

“20-year-old living the way , the decision 30-year-old Open” is one of Xiaoling Jun writings , Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House published the 2017-10 books , book price : Paperback, Pages :, article, right Xiao Bian carefully finishing Some readers of the book review , hope that we can have help .

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (1): Life is hard, but it never fails

  Xiao Lingjun, whose real name is Wang Lingkai, is a very independent and amazing entrepreneurial woman born in the 1980s . She has just entered the society and has a dual master’s degree in finance from Peking University

and Hong Kong University . After her undergraduate degree , she should have chosen another way to find a job and was admitted to Harvard and Cambridge at the same time . She can be called a beauty school tyrant , but she is also a

successful person . In 2017 she was elected to the Forbes China list of “30 under 30 elite list” of art , lifestyle, food and beverage field list, and if she said what a great place , it must be because “her daring”! Courage to many people,

but there is courage , willing to striveThere are very few people who bring positive energy to this world . What is commendable is that she is one of them.

  May you say, looks beautiful people in this world are particularly affected welcome , and those looks and bad people to see, would be discrimination. Yes, she’s beautiful is her capital , but her efforts she is worthy of us to learn

the place of a personal if self-sustaining beautiful and do not work hard, that is no good. But if a person is very common , but very hard, bitter reading, then her body there is also a different of temperament alone is the kind of

temperament, but also attract a lot of people. I love the latter more than the former, it is beautiful because parents give, but a man of knowledge is own by trying to learn the.

  So even if you are not confident , you have to read more.

  20 years old does not seem to be old, but it is a watershed. Because everyone is well known about the age of 20 when it has to be on the junior, he had been faced with a senior looking for a job to be out on my own.

  At the age of 20, you can make a brave choice, whether to continue your education, or to enter society and work as a cooler early .

  20-year-old is cool, because you may start to hate marrying after five years .

  But the 20-year-old just your next one starting point , the road ahead will be a man slowly groping, stumbling, stumbling nature is essential , being abusive, boredom is the inevitable choice .

  I agree with Xiao Ling Jun began to talk of a “25-year-old after being played live 32 slap in the face “

  She said: The world is not fair . This is completely not wrong , from primary school to start I believe you will know, the teachers want to come just like learning a good student , for those so-called “poor students” simply is

impatient , once the “exceedingly” and “poor students” had a contradiction , then. ” “Poor students” will definitely be unlucky , while “good students” will only gloat . It’s the same in this society ! The family money , and behind the

relationship of leadership naturally under the support , those of ordinary definitely hard worker, probably just a mistake , it will be reprimanded, it is very normal , no need to complain .

  She also said that emotional intelligence is more important than IQ and hard work . The same sentence is great. IQ can only show you that people have when learning is unique of advantage , but emotional intelligence is a firm in

the community cornerstone . A person can be stupid, but as long as her emotional intelligence is high, she will be popular everywhere, because she can speak and can move people’s hearts , even if she is not smart enough , some people give her opportunities .

  Hard life is short, and the line and treasure ; the future is very bright , Ganpin finally agreed to break!

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (2): What to greet you, my first year

  In the past few days, I have caught up with the holiday, and I have been at home for 11th. This year is the longest 11th in these years. It is an eight-day holiday.

  There are piles of things I want to do during the holidays. I wrote the plan and it turns out that I wrote it in vain. The time is always haunting.

  Dreaming back to the National Day many years ago, I was still a little girl under the age of twenty .

  Just on the university , lawlessness , bold vision and courage, the future has a lot of unrealistic of fantasy , a kind of do not hit the brick wall does not look back determination .

  I don’t know the heights of the sky and the earth , thinking that the whole world should be treated preferentially to me, and finally found that reality will always hit us back with a loud slap in the face.

  Then I knew it, turned and people around them than I was a lot of time, I suddenly realized , like know , I’m really old.

  When I do not care about the time, as it did find time to fill the gap in the same over, never stop.

  And the age that I don’t want to face will not be shifted by my will , and it will eventually come.

  Carefully look back to think , our self-righteousness of youth , which in the end there is the key word?

  Do you have a dream ? Have.

  That year vowed to say what I have to do what I want, too much ambition floating on the surface , but do not pay too much effort.

  In the end , I entered the workplace in obscurity , thinking that as long as I have a satisfactory job, I can do it.

  Because they do not understand human sophisticated , unspoken rules , the wind blows eaten loss, fell a somersault, flowing tears .

Busy errands   every day , doing trivial chores that can no longer be trivial, do you dare to talk about your dreams to others ?

  It has long been submerged in countless EXCEL forms and PPT slides on the desktop .

  Your dream has long since fallen into the mortal world , and it is no longer the skirt corner of the Seven Fairies , and no one echoes it.

Do you   have any brothers ? Have.

  The determination and vows made in the year of graduation will be as light as a feather and play like a child’s play.

  That good to do something big industry, dissipate over time in an old friend gradually raised beer belly every night and will play the king of pesticides in.

  One call per night becomes one per week, one per month, and gradually I won’t call again for a few months.

  Only in the address book contact and the holidays have the greetings remind us have had such a basin friends.

  Is there love ? Have.

  The innocent and romantic vows made when I was young , at that time, as long as I saw the person I liked, my eyes would smile.

  Then there is no micro-channel , no WIFI, contact also on SMS of the day , people like to receive the information , the heart would really like deer rattling like not stop.

  And those nights that have not slept in order to wait for a reply , have disappeared in the river of time over time.

  Many reality, a lot of misfortune , and finally we parted, a lot of things really forget, just remember that every day is really blue sky of the stars is really a lot, we go a long way, you laugh really nice .

  Later, I often wonder, if time could go back ten years ago, I would say something to yourself ten years ago.

  Are you studying hard? Don’t you want to sleep in? Don’t you want to fall in love?

  After a hundred answers , what I most want to say to myself is: read more books.

  Film inside, we all know a lot of sense , but it still had a bad life .

  However, we do not know the truth, not with the mind of the world , this really will be able to have a good birth?

  In the early years, if you could understand a little bit more, you would not be so obsessed with many things, and you would not hesitate so much when you encounter many choices .

  Youth is undoubtedly gone, but the future is too long, there is still a long way to go, and there are still many hurdles to pass.

  The twenty-year-old is nearing the end . After three years have passed, what kind of self will you face when you are thirty?

  The ancients often say thirty, twenty of us to do what kind of efforts to three years old, there will be what kind of ending .

  Still with determination efforts, humble in attitude and unyielding courage.

  Cheer for thirty, cheer for tomorrow.

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (3): Ambitious is indispensable when you are young

  Because of the title of this book , I still can’t resist the temptation of inspirational books . As we are in our twenties, this is the age of flowers . We graduated from college and rushed forward with great enthusiasm to use our

beautiful youth. Looking for a job that you like , even if you run into a wall, you will never hesitate . But is this really just twenty-year-old us? Now we are too impetuous . When we encounter things that don’t go well with us,

we will be fooling around, venting, and bringing bad emotions into work. We also love to compare ourselves everywhere. There is always a reason to escape crime for ourselves and always aim at ourselves. the boss , thinking that is the feeling people disgusted .

  ”20-year-old way of life, 30-year-old decided to open the way” Jun Xiaoling in each one, all with a strong of chicken dishes, for in the trough of readers, just essential, but for me two about ten years old readers, the future had

a hint of hesitation , is afraid of Xiaoling said the king, as she said in the book: “in the workplace, there are a lot of things, not what you say does not like you can not do It’s not what you don’t like or want, or it’s not good. You are

not qualified to say what you want in life . Whether you do well or not has nothing to do with whether you like it or not. It does n’t necessarily matter whether you are good enough to welcome you. want to do in life? “these, gave me

some stimulus , I’ve got a computer professional of graduate students , a typical school bully, of course, there are a lot of people admire his work, a monthly salary into the million and in my eyes, this salary is very high, but I know

that he work overtime every day to nine at night, after returning home also adhere to exercise the body , at ten o’clock when we want to sleep, others still in motion , work, probably twelve to fall asleep ,This isGap , like the

book talking about the “I” of the first class scoffed , often by overdone such spaces passage from a curtain or the gap glimpse of some of Rocker foot when reading the newspaper “the rich” in thought: “in In an airplane , why spend

1,000 or even thousands of dollars to enjoy the so-called superiority ?” They even deliberately show and distinguish their identity in their reading and newspaper . Only you really experience too will know, in the first class of people ,

not read books and newspapers is to use computer work, first class and economic disparity cabin here, this gap is not money, but for life attitude and their Request . In economy class was noisy and crowded torture of sleep also can not

work, only competent when other things to pass the time, but in others sleep supplement or complement their knowledge conservation . That’s why I especially like the sentence “When I was young, I was weaker , stronger, and possessedOn their own to change , to change the family , ambition and even change society, on its own growth is indispensable. “

  This book, there are a variety of examples , that occur in the body of the king Xiaoling, there happened to her subordinate body, but also we will go through some things, read this book, when it is playing in advance With

vaccination, after all, in work, life, and communication , there will be unavoidable mistakes. Life is not as simple as we imagined . Xiao Lingjun’s current life is not casually owned. We have to pay for all of this.

  I like chicken soup because I am reading other people’s stories , hoping to find a similar self from other people’s stories , so as to comfort myself. You can still live well when you look at them.

  The 20-year-old’s lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (4): It is not early at the age of 20, and it is not too late at the 30-year-old

  The book’s title attracted 20-year-old age group , but many 30-year-old man missed a good book. In fact, even people in their 30s are not too late to watch it.

  Author Xiao Ling Jun, is super beautiful learning tyrants, read research when it created the birth date of the income of millions of game company , founded after graduating meters salad, known as China’s “salad queen “, she is

also the network Reds , Writer , her “Desperate , Excited ” inspirational essay collection of many masterpieces has been reposted crazy on multiple platforms , inspiring countless young people .

  This book is a collection of inspirational essays add chicken broth, plain the text has provided readers with a steady stream of chicken blood. Each article ignites your passion and collides with the spark of dreams .

  She told us, looks in our lives hidden habits , ability hidden in our trial and error and accumulation . She reminded us that most of the unsuccessful talents are lack of talents , and any failure is the incompetence of people

themselves . She told us with her own life insights that the slap in the face of life after the age of 25 allows us to know the thorns on the road of life in advance . She broke the reason crumple, to recount to us, why can not

because interest in looking for work, freedom of occupation is not free, in front of the work you want to do, come and talk about life.

  She used the examples of people around her to explain how to correct her mentality , not to resent the rich, they don’t owe us anything, on the contrary they can learn a lot from them; don’t be hostile to the world, the world

is so busy, There is no time to target us; don’t be moved by your own efforts , you should reflect on why you have to pay more than others to achieve the same effect .

  In her article demonstrates for the money in the right attitude, rational wanted no means mercenary , about money, not to make a thick shame , take the initiative to talk about money, people are smart people, can not be put it nicely is no ambition, fame and fortune , but in reality there is no progress heart, willing status quo mediocre.

  The result of hard work in your twenties will be reflected in your life in your thirties. The ambition at this age will make you realize that life has a better quality , better life experience, and more possibilities . Don’t panic if it’s

over 30 years old before you realize that your life was useless in your 20s. Don’t panic . Start fighting now and get a good response even in your 40s. Remember, the best time to plant a tree is Ten years ago, followed by now. Do not

wait until midlife crisis , on which under the old and small , economical energy pressure is greater when it is regret was willing to mediocrity without as because the older the more not stand the torment, even thought there is

struggle , also tend to be some of the household chores Holding the hind legs is like falling into a quagmire, and it is even more difficult to think about flying into the sky .

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (5): Let struggle become the background

  Youth is for struggle, not for squandering. This is what I want to say the most after reading the new work “The Lifestyle of 20 Years Old Determines the Way of Opening 30 Years Old” by Xiao Lingjun, the best-selling author and Queen of Salad.

  Xiao Ling Jun combined their own rich study, work, travel, and as a business founder ‘s experience , to young people in their 20s guidance . Although I have passed the age of 20s, but read, still I feel good enough .

  For example, Xiao Lingjun wrote in the book: The best resources are always evenly matched . If you are not good enough, your contacts are mostly worthless . Leave a phone plus a micro-channel, the end may just return a

kind of expression . Good connections do not come from pursuit , but from attraction. So stop talking about who you know , knowing does not make any sense .

  For another example, she wrote: People who often say, “We live very close, come to see you next time”, often they still can’t meet afterwards. The friendship measured by distance , even if it is separated by a street , is a thousand mountains and rivers .

  Indeed, they had filled with come experience summary , it seems generally considered not the same with us, but it is probably the case. Especially after working, the experience can be deeper. Have to say, in a fast -paced today,

interpersonal exchange manner varied , especially online contact more convenient , people may not have been common surface, but they can all the time chat together. This is the reality that we are facing in this fast- developing

society, and the distance between people in real life is getting bigger and bigger. In addition to their loved ones friends , others are likely to face friends, intersection little, feeling not deep.

  So, we can understand this, she said: No one should help you for granted. Thank all those who have given you convenience, because no one really has to help you. And even if you have helped others before, don’t ask others to

help you next time. Only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help. We will be surprised to find that the reality is like this. We used to help others without hesitation, but at that time, when you ask for help from a friend you have helped, they will tell you with many “reasonable” reasons that they can’t help. you.

  We must correctly understand interpersonal relationships and working relationships. We must still maintain our original intention and kindness. When others encounter difficulties, we can choose to help others without

hesitation, but we must also be psychologically prepared for this. That is, the people we have helped may not be able to reward you and help you in the end. Once we understand this truth, we will be much more calm.

  Reading Xiao Lingjun’s book is like chatting with a good friend. There is not too much polite language, and it is all about sharing experiences with actual content. Not only can it be read as an inspirational book, but it can also be read every day before going to bed; many of the truths and stories in the book happen around us, so it feels very cordial and useful to read.

  The world is so busy, there is no time to target you. The world is actually indifferent. Once you imagine the world as an imaginary enemy, it is you who are tired, and it is you who wear it out. If you want to be treated kindly and kindly by others, you must first position yourself, know that you are not that important, and return others with kindness and trust.

  Therefore, be yourself and let yourself become that powerful person, to be worthy of your once beautiful dream. Only by making good use of your time and making struggle your standard and background can you have the life, wealth and freedom you want to live.

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” After reading (6): Comment on the 20-year-old lifestyle and determine the way to open at the 30-year-old

  We often hate struggling to get up every morning, rushing to a place well-dressed, doing work that is infinitely tortuous and infinitely weak with “meaning” and “dream”, and then living with a group of strangers squeezed in a

canned car with sweating. The ping-pong life of homecoming. But most people live like this throughout their lives. Do you want to hate and complain for a lifetime?

  I opened the book casually, and saw such a passage on the second page. I felt that my heart was being peeped naked, and I felt that my self-esteem that I had been cautiously deceived over the past 10 years was being used mercilessly. It is clear, extremely embarrassing, extremely guilty, but extremely convinced.

  I was 32 years old when I saw this book, and I knew from the title that I had missed the best time to read the book, but the ancients said that if I heard about it, I would die at night! So I chose this book to read it seriously.

  After reading it for the first time, I didn’t feel too much. I felt that the whole book was like a book of chicken soup, stating various diseases that young people do not seek to make progress, but did not propose any solutions. I

hated this kind of books the most before, but when I saw it for the second time, I unknowingly followed the author’s thoughts and began to fall into contemplation. Think about your own life, think about your weaknesses. I am always

not confident enough . Although both my superiors and colleagues think that I am very good, and I also worship myself very much in a flash in the pan, but more often I am humble and self-prepared, which puts me in the position

of manager. Suffering from responsibilities. I still remember that when I accepted the appointment as a manager on the first day, I was very apprehensive and very worried. I was afraid that I could not do this job well, so that I could

not sleep well at night. Then a month later, I became a habit slowly. And I started to be busy every day without knowing why. As the book said, “Life has never become easier, but you become calmer a little bit”, and this kind of calmness is more like a compromise, a kind of avoidance The current dilemma.

  There is an 8-day holiday for Mid-Autumn Festival, and I can’t buy a ticket on the 1st, so I want to take a two-hour break and go home on the 30th. In fact, the manager has 2 days of paid time off every month. I didn’t take a

break in September. There is nothing wrong with it, but I was still very apprehensive and racked my brains with the director of the center to ask for a two-hour leave. As I expected, he also blocked me on the grounds of whether the

department work was arranged and other things. Although in the end I was still successful in asking for leave, during the two hours I was asking for leave, I was always worried about the company’s phone ringing, feeling that I

was living very badly but there was nothing to do. I promised from the time my daughter was born. Wife and children have to bid farewell to their business trips and go home with peace of mind to accompany their wives,

children and parents, and live up to the good times. Then a few years later, I still haven’t changed the slightest.

  Not humble, not humble, not panic, maybe this is what life looks like. Following the author’s words, I finally found my answer in my thoughts: What I lack is ambition, I don’t want to be the one who suffers from gains and

losses, is indifferent to fame and fortune , and has no ambition. Fool. I want to dream, I want bread, and I want to pursue the freedom I want in my youth.

  It turns out that this book does not directly tell us the way to solve the confusion. What it tells us is: think for yourself, analyze yourself, and solve problems.

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (7): We can’t go back to the past, but we can grasp the present.

  Before reading Xiao Lingjun’s book, I thought that this is a chicken soup for the soul, and sometimes it is good to drink. As a girl in her early 20s, I think this book should give me a lot of enlightenment. It turns out that this

book is really good. Not only is it giving people positive energy, but some of Xiao Lingjun’s experiences have also broadened my horizons and gave me a lot of enlightenment. So people in their 20s can really take a good look at this book, and it will definitely give everyone a very different feeling.

  We have just graduated from school and entered the workplace when we were in our 20s. Many graduates would say how poor society is. Be fair, the society really is so unfair level. There are many people who are more

handsome and beautiful than us, and have more talent, status, wealth, and accomplishments than us. When the company is recruiting, they have any reason to choose us who have no advantage instead of choosing them, so they

must improve their abilities in all aspects, at least one aspect is better than others. Xiao Lingjun said that sincerity may not be exchanged for sincerity, indeed, we have all encountered such things from school to entering and leaving

the society. I remember the person who really became a friend when I was a sophomore in high school, he really didn’t treat me as a friend. The wholeheartedness I gave was just what she felt should be. In her opinion, I will

always wear another mask, so it’s really like what Xiao Lingjun said: pay if you have a good time, don’t care too much, just be nice to others, don’t expect others’ gratitude and equality Feedback. Another point that I remember

very deeply is Xiao Lingjun’s view of reading. I no longer know what I ate when I was a kid, but I am sure that it was them that became my bones and blood that made me grow like this. People who read a lot of books really have a

special temperament, which can be regarded as bookish by us. People who read more often know more than those who read less. So even if we pay for many things, we may not gain anything, but reading is something that we will gain after reading.

  We are in a special era, where social employment pressure is high, and it is difficult for college students to find jobs after graduation, and they cannot find good jobs and good positions. In this context, the losers always attribute

their failure to the social environment and various systems. They do not know that it is not society that makes them like this, but they themselves become like this in despair. There are still many people who stand out in difficult

circumstances. In fact, after careful observation and comparison, you will find that you are really not good enough, and there is indeed a gap between you and the winners. Those who have never paid, why can they get everything

they want? It is your responsibility that you do not get it, not the injustice of the outside world. Therefore, when we fail, we have to find the gap with others, tell ourselves what is inferior to others, so as to overcome our

shortcomings and make ourselves more competitive. In this way, you are one step closer to success.

  Xiao Lingjun said: “Don’t envy others, don’t live in other people’s lives, whether it’s just a show or really just want to share beautiful things, what you see is not all” We often envy others, you see, What did XXX’s boyfriend

buy her again. You see XX is so successful at such a young age, etc. While we are envious of others, in fact, others are also envious of us, envious of our youth and ease, envious of the shadow of light in our eyes. “Behind all the

fresh clothes, riches and wines, and the glamorous life, there will always be many unknown bitterness. The seemingly brilliant life always has a sad background.” So don’t always envy others, Persevere in your dreams and believe: what you do today is hard work, and what happens in the future is a gift.

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” After reading (8): Can’t live awkwardly at an awkward age

  Each stage of life will have different problems, but in the 20-30 years old, it will be a period of time when most people feel confused. From a state of learning that only needs to study well and others do not need to be considered,

enter the work position. In a new stage that is different from school, you will face many choices, will have many ideas about life, and feel that there are many unknown things waiting for you to explore and discover. At the same

time, during this period, many elders will provide us with what they call the same experience at this stage for us to imitate and learn from them. The book “Lifestyle at 20, Deciding the Way to Open at 30” is like a compass, pointing us the way in the fog.

  The most commendable part of this book for me is that the author wrote almost all the confusion she felt at this stage, and gave her own understanding and thinking. This makes me very useful. Because almost every text I

read after reading it, I will sigh: I have this idea, but I am still at a loss for it. The author gave me a perspective on the problem, the way to think about the problem, and the way to solve the problem. It allowed me not only to learn from the experience of my elders, but also gave me more choices.

  I think that the reason why my 20s are the most confused is because I am full of imagination about life and I want to do a vigorous job at work, but in actual work, I do little things. I feel that doing these things is not enough

to show my strength. , It’s not worth all the effort. Everything is easy. In this way, I can’t do big things, and I don’t want to do small things. I don’t have a long time in my 20s, and time passes quickly in the muddle. The author made

me realize that without the accumulation of every little thing, I can’t do great things. Every thing you do at work now becomes your own business card, and others understand who you are through what you do. , Observe your

way of doing things, only do your own job well, not underestimate every small thing you think, step by step, and lay a solid foundation for each step, so that when a major event comes, the leader will be relieved Only by entrusting the work to you can you have the confidence and ability to do a certain job. Only when you encounter new opportunities at work, you can grasp it.

  Our 20s are when we lay a good foundation. Only when we are in our 20s, ambitious, have enough experience, are not afraid of making mistakes, and achieve barbaric growth, can we calmly handle various things in our 30s. .

Those who belong to their 20s should endure hardships. We can’t escape. Otherwise, if we escape the path we have to take at the age of 20, then in our future life, we will have to use other ways to double back sooner or later.

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (9): We have to keep trial and error to choose a life that suits us

  Xiao Lingjun, a post-88 beauty tyrant who holds a master’s degree in finance from Peking University and the University of Hong Kong, once also gave up the Harvard admission notice and a job of 10 million yuan. When he

was a graduate student, he founded a game company with a daily income of one million. , I have entered Tibet 5 times on different routes. When I saw such an interesting life experience, I felt that Xiao Lingjun’s life was really

successful and crushed our boring life at least five times. Let’s make a hypothesis. If I can have everything she gave up, what will happen to us at that time? Will we also choose to give up? My answer is: no. I should be reluctant to

give up these advantagesLife, choose a life that I have never experienced before, travel, entrepreneurship, independence, dreams, these I have always thought that if I have all of the above, then those things should not be

too far away from me, at least not It will be farther away than when I didn’t have it. Well, let’s get back to the topic, after all, we can only worship other people’s lives, and living our own lives is the kingly way. When Xiao Lingjun

has lived what she wants (and also what I want), we are still thinking about how we should live when we are 20, whether we will panic when we are 30, and I don’t know when From the beginning, 30 years old has become a

hurdle in our minds. We always want to say what we must do when we reach 30. We start to become anxious and feel that we don’t have so much time to live, just like we have passed 30 years old. We will die, just like if we don’t

realize our dreams, after the age of 30, we will become walking corpses. We don’t want to give up and dare not try. We just live in the tangled 20s and 30s. It shouldn’t be regretted because we didn’t choose or gave up. The answer is

indeed: At that time, we would definitely panic and regret. Regret for not trying more ways to live, not choosing the life we ​​want, but becoming The walking body in this world, not the soul that feeds on dreams. At the age of 20, we

still have infinite possibilities in our lives. To be with people with dreams, to try different things, to work hard, to have dreams, to keep trial and error, to find the life that we really like, and to stand at 30. Time will not regret our

original choice, and the trial and error of those years. Only after trying will you know if you really like it. The life that others say may not be the life you want. After all, we have different personalities and lifestyles. It’s not the same.

Only when we work harder for our dreams and become a better version of ourselves, at the age of 30, we can say: Although I have not fulfilled my dream, I have been surpassing it. At that time, 30 years old should be just an age for

us. It can’t change anything for us. As long as we have a dream, it will not be too late. In this book, Xiaoling Jun also said that we need to think more clearly. If you don’t experience it, you will really think that what you think is what

you think. We will think that interest is regarded as work, so that life will be more perfect. In this way, when we open our eyes every day, we will feel that we are living for our dreams. Everything we do is what I like, because in

this way we should not feel tired, but Xiao Lingjun is also regarded as an interest. When the work is broken and you really don’t have that much energy to deal with, we know that there are many things, we are all wrong, and only

after trying it out, we can understand the truth. In this book, Xiao Lingjun shared a lot of her life experience with us, and got a lot of life principles from these experiences, and she also told us her personal views. I was wondering, if

someone would take the trouble to tell us about their life experience, why would we refuse it? After all, we have not experienced it, and we may experience it too. I’m listening, are you singing? 2017.10.7 Reading

  “The 20-year-old lifestyle determines the way to open at the 30-year-old” Thoughts after reading (10): Let struggle become the background

  Youth is for struggle, not for squandering. This is what I want to say the most after reading the new work “The Lifestyle of 20 Years Old Determines the Way of Opening 30 Years Old” by Xiao Lingjun, the best-selling author and Queen of Salad.

  Xiao Lingjun combined his rich study, work, travel and experience as a company founder to guide young people in their 20s. Although I am over 20 years old, I still find it useful to read it.

  For example, Xiao Lingjun wrote in the book: The best resources are always evenly matched. If you are not good enough, your contacts are mostly worthless. Leave a phone call and add a WeChat, and in the end it may just be a friendly expression. Good connections do not come from pursuit, but from attraction. So stop talking about who you know, knowing does not make any sense.

  For another example, she wrote: People who often say, “We live very close, come to see you next time”, often they still can’t meet afterwards. The friendship measured by distance, even if it is separated by a street, is a thousand mountains and rivers.

  Indeed, these are full of experience summaries of people who have passed by, and it seems that they are different from what we usually think, but it is probably the case. Especially after working, the experience can be

deeper. I have to say that in the fast-paced today, there are various ways of communication between people, especially online contact is becoming more and more convenient, people can chat together every moment instead of

meeting frequently. This is the reality that we are facing in this fast-developing society, and the distance between people in real life is getting bigger and bigger. Except for your close relatives and friends, everyone else may be friends in the face, and they don’t have much contact with each other.

  So, we can understand this, she said: No one should help you for granted. Thank all those who have given you convenience, because no one really has to help you. And even if you have helped others before, don’t ask others to

help you next time. Only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help. We will be surprised to find that the reality is like this. We used to help others without hesitation, but at that time, when you ask for help from a friend you have helped, they will tell you with many “reasonable” reasons that they can’t help. you.

  We must correctly understand interpersonal relationships and working relationships. We must still maintain our original intention and kindness. When others encounter difficulties, we can choose to help others without

hesitation, but we must also be psychologically prepared for this. That is, the people we have helped may not be able to reward you and help you in the end. Once we understand this truth, we will be much more calm.

  Reading Xiao Lingjun’s book is like chatting with a good friend. There is not too much polite language, and it is all about sharing experiences with actual content. Not only can it be read as an inspirational book, but it can also

be read every day before going to bed; many of the truths and stories in the book happen around us, so it feels very cordial and useful to read.

  The world is so busy, there is no time to target you. The world is actually indifferent. Once you imagine the world as an imaginary enemy, it is you who are tired, and it is you who wear it out. If you want to be treated kindly and kindly by others, you must first position yourself, know that you are not that important, and return others with kindness and trust.

  Therefore, be yourself and let yourself become that powerful person, to be worthy of your once beautiful dream. Only by making good use of your time and making struggle your standard and background can you have the life, wealth and freedom you want to live.